Well I feel like with a family of 12 it’ll be hard to be close with every child I feel like in a family of 12 the kids probably would have more freedom but won’t be close to their parents because it’s a big family and the parents have 12 kids to take care of, but in a family with 2 kids the parents are more likely closer to their kids and more strict because it’s easier to take care of 2 kids then 12