Which of the following statements is a blaming message?
a. "I think we made a mistake."
b. "You've messed up everything!"
c. "We can't mess this up."
d. "I apologize for the error."
"You've messed up everything" is the blaming message. It points towards another person doing something instead of just making a general statement or even asking a question. When you take someone's action and use it as the topic you are blaming them for whatever it is that they did or said.